I was born and raised in Chinatown, New York City to a Chinese Father and a Filipina Mother. Growing up in Chinatown with my older sister, we were brought up in a household that was for the most part traditionally Chinese, that included my parents and my grandmother and my late grandfather. Although my sister was born in the Philippines and spoke Tagalog at a young age, she and I attended Chinese School and spoke mostly Chinese and English at home. When I was younger, it was not uncommon for me to go to temple with my grandmother and go to church with my mom. I guess you would say, I was brought up in a very open minded home environment, not to mention the culturally diverse city I called my playground. My mixed family dynamic, my one-of-a-kind Chinatown and my diversely, larger-than-life city really created quite a unique identity I call myself. From as long as I can remember, I have been on an ongoing search to find, create, recreate and transform who I am. And I guess we’re all looking for the same answer to the question: Who am I?
Over the years, I have been able to slowly piece together the puzzle of my identity by experiencing, learning, and living the life that has been presented to me and the life that I have created. What I realized in this journey is that the journey never ends. The puzzle will never be complete. It is always transforming and always changing. I realized that this transformation is what keeps us going and what makes life worth living, from the triumphs to the tragedies and from the happiness to the pain. The valuable lessons that we learn, the things we experience and life’s controllable and uncontrollable moments are all apart of our identity set forth for us to embrace, create and recreate.
At a young age I was exposed to a very special sport introduced to me by my greatest teacher, mentor, and adviser. This person I called Dad. Through the years my father taught me all about Soccer, but more importantly he showed me soccer through the eyes of life experiences. He taught me that lessons in the game are no different than life lesson, and he instilled in me a notion that whatever we do whether is it soccer or anything else, that the lessons learned are most imperative to creating experiences that shape who we are and who we will become. Today, I am lucky to say that the sport I come to love has gratefully become a means for me to not only find who I am, it has become a means of creating self identity.
In 2009, I was able to further explore my Chinese heritage by playing in the Hong Kong First Division. I move to Hong Kong and decided that football would be only a fraction of what I would take from my experience there. To the public, I was an American Born Chinese (ABC) from New York who wanted to play soccer in HK because he spoke Cantonese. For myself, I was was an Chinese-Filipino American from Chinatown NYC, who saw a chance to play at a professional level in a country that could reconnect him with a part of his culture and heritage, while learning it’s traditions, values and language.
Now, I have the same opportunity, to not only play the beautiful game in a beautiful country, I have the amazing chance to reconnect and learn more about my mother’s country. Only this time, my exceptions for myself are much higher. Prior to coming hear I didn’t speak Tagalog and Filipino culture, value and traditions have been quite unfamiliar to me. I have momentarily traded the streets of Chinatown for the Streets of Manila and I, Lexton Dela Cruz Moy have made a BIG commitment to learn, experience and embrace the Filipino language and tradition.
“I am a “Asong Kalye” from the streets of Chinatown… I am a Chinoy “Asong Kalye” from America… I am a Pinoy “Asong Kalye” living in Manila… And I will Become a Philippine Azkal that represents all “Asong Kalye” like me.”
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Rheiya says
well written..it touched my heart..it’s rare to know people like you who is willing to embrace the pinoy culture..proud pinoy you are indeed..so proud of you, lex!
Spirrsguy says
Thanks! I really appreciate the comment! Proud Pinoy!
Issa says
well said Lex. I just hope that you realize that like a real “asong kalye” you would get shooed away by critics or be chased off by narow-minded people for chosing to be pinoy, for chosing to be an Azkal. Just stay focused on your goal. I know your gonna make the Filipinos proud.
Spirrsguy says
This is a very good point! But as with many things in life, may we gain strength and motivation from our critics. Thanks for the support. I hope the goal i have set forth will be realized in the future to come.
Xavi says
Proud of you, Lex. And very happy for your achievement!
Add oil, amigo!
Spirrsguy says
XAVI! miss you brotha! see you in indonesia!
Ryan Gillego says
While reading the text of your story, I am able to visualize in my mind your childhood, your home town, the faces, places and traditions that surrounded you as you grow in NYC. Then you took me into your predicament, your apprehension, your change, your growth and personal challenge as if I, as a reader, was part of that journey and realization. I am particularly proud of the fact that you are not afraid of experiencing different cultures, of embracing and celebrating your heritage, and honouring the people and the culture that shaped you as who you are today. I wish you all the best and congratulate you for being one proud Filipino!!! God bless Lex.
Spirrsguy says
A true artist’s response! articulate and understanding you are… Thanks you so much!
SAM says
kick for glory lexton….
Jannet says
found this blog amazing & inspiring as well! best of luck to lex and happy that you’ve already found who you truly are. wish i could do just the same.
cheers
jannet
Spirrsguy says
I too am still searching, I don’t think we ever stop. Baby steps add to the quality of life. Please keep in touch and let me know your thoughts! “Every Minute that goes by is another chance to create change in yourself and others around you”
Nessa says
Encountered this blog for the second time. Nakakataba po ng puso basahin, every word. Gives me a different feeling. Makes me more proud to be Filipino. Actually the first time I have read this, I already saved a copy in my computer. Nice one! Looking forward to reading more “nakakataba ng puso” blogs from you. God Bless! Hope you enjoy your stay here and fully embrace the simple yet rich Filipino culture.
Spirrsguy says
thanks so much… it means alot to me when people can be inspired and proud of themselves. To evoke emotions or feeling toward my experience is one thing but to evoke true emotions within other people is truly something special. thanks for sharing!